MALE ISSUES

You are the husband
You're supposed to lead
But yet you're selfish
When she's in need
It's another problem
We must address
Some sensitive issues
Most won't confess
But it's time to talk
Let's clear the air
There's a double standard
That's just not fair
You often complain
That she's gained weight
So you're ashamed
To take her on a date
Is it because
She's given birth
To the most precious beings
On God's green earth
Or is it because
She's a bit depressed
Being married to you
Has her feeling stressed
She's no super model
Or a woman leading cheers
But can you see your abs
Or are they filled with beers
So please don't complain
About what she might lack
When you're a couch potato
And not a Quarterback
With that being said
Let's discuss the bedroom
Let's address some questions
Which lead her to assume
Are you impotent
Naïve or depressed
Inexperienced
Or just plain stressed
All of these issues
Leave her frustrated
Her mind may wander
About others she dated
It's Satan's ploy
To make her want to cheat
Women are clever
They can be discreet
So brothers step up
And put your pride aside
Get the help you need
To take care of your bride
Are you too fast
When she wants it slow
You're making love
Not a sleazy porno
But if she does
Prefer it fast
...Pace yourself...
Make sure you can last
You'll reach your goal
You always do
Let her finish first
Then take care of you
It's called chivalry
And it's not dead
Let it guide your actions
In your marriage bed
The lady comes first
A good rule to follow
But don't pressure her
If she doesn't swallow
Yes, oral sex
Some think it's taboo
You perform it on her
But she won't do it to you
She has her reasons
Whatever they are
It's okay to ask
But don't take it too far
Was she hurt
By a jerk in her past
She's trying to heal
But you're moving too fast
It bothers her
No matter what it was
Just love her now
The way God does
She's pretty complex
There's much to explore
You're missing out
If you choose to ignore
What are her goals
What's her greatest fear
Actively listen
When holding her near
It's always good
To begin with romance
Before you start
To remove her pants
If she says no
The mood’s not right
Don't get angry
And pout all night
She needs a man
Not a selfish boy
Be considerate
Don't steal her joy
Enjoy your wife
And forsake all others
Get much advice
From spiritual brothers
It’s time for you
To swallow your pride
And give your best
To your beautiful bride


Cornelius